It seems like your boyfriend likes your sister very much. Its best to work on your own issues first, so you can better understand what caused them. Try to get things right and, if you can, you can say you tried, saw he was a freak or wasn't ready for a relationship and move on. This guy ain't it, OP. I cannot imagine anyone saying this is "normal.". When a Guy Updates You About His Day(Here What It Means), When Your Ex Shows Up Unannounced(In-Depth Guide), When a Guy Says He Wants You (Meaning & How To Respond). Has there been a drastic change in his behavior or has he always ignored you when with his daughters? I agree. If you did, would you ask them what they want to do and ignore your SO? Not me any my sister (lol), but thats another story. The sister had all her life to grow that close to him while I'm guessing you met him kinda recently. By directly addressing the issue you might be able to nip it in the bud and quickly get to the bottom of things without allowing it to roll on. If he dosn't change after knowing whats bothering you then end it. That's fine I did my best to let him know I was there for him and that if . Its sad and shows he's not ready for a relationship or even a normal friendship if he can't figure out how to deal with multiple people in a group. I think it's time to go guy shopping. So don't do that lol. My therapist phrased it as no you statements: people dont like being told what theyre doing. (Bonus: if it isnt, how do I avoid ending up where I am now. If he hasnt replied to one of your messages it doesnt necessarily mean that hes no longer into you. But even then there is always a limit to it. are you window dressing ? But heres the brutal truth you need to hear its not going to help in the long run. In this instance, ignoring you is most likely driven by anger and hurt. Hack Spirit. If he's not, she knows where she stands. when my boyfriend is with his friends, he completely ignores me, he doesnt text or call me, he makes no form of contact till the next day, half the time he doesnt even tell me when his going out. They never made time for anyone else! Theyre young and hes probably not mature enough to be in a relationship rn. Here is where consequences comes in. Do u live in Alabama? If that first conversation about spending special time alone goes well, maybe y'all could negotiate and cooperate together on how often you'd like to see the sister. lots of love OP. You're crazy. Your 20s is a time for fun. I love writing practical articles that help others live a mindful and better life. The end. A basic example: Ive been feeling ignored lately because it feels like you spend more time with your sister than you do with me and I want to spend time with you. Appyfzs example is great as well. //